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In Loving Memory of Traci Lynn Brittingham Gray.
It is with heavy hearts we share the passing of Traci Lynn Gray, 59 years old, a beloved daughter, wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, and friend. She passed away peacefully on May 27, 2026, surrounded by her loving husband and two children. She was born in Wilmington, Delaware, on July 28, 1966. Traci is remembered for her strength, her humor, her warm smile, and for the joy and compassion she brought to everyone who knew her.
For 14 years, Traci worked as a dedicated cafeteria employee with the Indian River School District, where she was affectionately known as a "lunch lady." She served warm smiles along with every meal, and her kindness and caring nature touched countless students and staff members. Although she retired at a young age due to health challenges, she continued to live her life with love, humor, and determination.
Traci graduated from Indian River High School in 1984. Her greatest happiness came when she shared time with her family while creating treasured memories together. She also enjoyed camping, shopping on Amazon, taking trips to the boardwalk for Thrasher’s fries, and spending sunny days at the pool with her grandchildren.
She was preceded in death by her mother, Charlotte Sue Brittingham. Traci left many to cherish her memories, survived by her husband, Robbie Keith; her children, Elise Marie Farkas (Jeremy Andrew) and Jessie Micheal Gray (Kristina Marie); her grandchildren, Kenzie Addison, Aubrey Olivia, and Brantley Michael; her father, David Thomas Brittingham; and her sister, Connie Brittingham Steele along with many extended family members and friends.
Traci will be remembered for her loving spirit, her devotion to family, and the countless smiles she shared with others. Her legacy of kindness and love will continue to live on in the hearts of all who knew her.
A celebration of life will be held at 6 p.m. on Saturday, July 25, 2026, at 27508 Dagsboro Road, Dagsboro, Delaware.
In lieu of flowers, the family suggests supporting research for islet cell transplantation for the community of T1 diabetics or donating to the American Heart Association.
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