Robert James Willoughby, Jr (RJ)

Robert James Willoughby, Jr (63) Born December 13, 1961, entered into the light at home surrounded by loved ones on July 12, 2025, in Lewes, DE.

Son of the late Robert and Myrna Willoughby. Also predeceased by his nephews, Jason Sweeney and Cody Hopkins, and survived by his Husband of 24 years, Danny Slagle. His sisters are Sheri Sweeney (George Sweeney), Wendy McVicker, Lori Hopkins (Bill Hopkins), Stepdaughter, Lindsay Haines, and Grandson, Mason Johnston. Also survived by many nieces, nephews, and friends.

RJ was known for his flashy Drum Major performances as a graduate of Ridley High School. This led to his love and passion for DCI (Drum Corps International), for which he was a member of Crossman. He had many interests, which included gardening, sports, dancing with the DC Cowboys, biking, running marathons, trips to the mountains, Penn State and Eagles football, horseback riding, and weekly gatherings with friends to enjoy RuPaul's Drag Race. But he was at his happiest in the kitchen. He was a self-taught pastry chef when he opened his bakery in the 80s. He relocated to Delaware in 1998, where he discovered his true passion for the culinary Arts Industry. He taught at Laurel High School as the culinary teacher, where he immersed himself in sharing his knowledge and skills with his students. Due to his guidance and encouragement, many of his students have chosen to follow in his footsteps.

RJ will be remembered for his smile, wit, his positive attitude, love of Bryers ice cream, joy of life, compassion for mankind, giving his honest opinion, and enjoying a glass of the finest bourbon around the fire with family and friends.

RJ's final journey was becoming the catering Chef for the non-profit, Children's Beach House in Lewes.

A Celebration of Life will be held on Saturday, July 19, 2025, at Children's Beach House from 12:30 to 5:00, with the celebration starting at 1:00 pm.  In place of flowers, donations can be sent to Children's Beach House,1800 Bay Ave, Lewes, DE 19958.